Day 1 Pre-Show
Tamara Lackey
Lessons
Day 1 Pre-Show
19:00 2Introduction
30:37 3Overview of Course
10:54 4Relationships to Self
39:37 5The Three I's: Impatience, Irritation & Insecurity
40:46 6Personal Recipe for Best Conditions
34:06 7Core Toolkit of Healthy Relationships
31:10Empathy and Stress Management
22:22 9Roleplay with Sara & Brian, and Relationships Toolkit
17:35 10Trust, Vulnerability and Courage
30:36 11The Lost Art of Listening
24:36 12Skype with Kyle Cease
20:37 13Day 2 Pre-Show
18:50 14Obstacles in Modern Relationships: Money
18:24 15Obstacles in Modern Relationships: Sex with guest Mike
34:13 16Obstacles in Modern Relationships: Loss of Connection
28:24 17Obstacles in Modern Relationships: Stress Overload
17:00 18Shared Lifestyle/Household Duties with Steve Lackey
24:43 19Fighting Fair & Neutralizing Arguments
24:19 20Making creativeLIVE History: The Proposal!
03:11 21Relationships with Children: Guest Jenny Solar
19:47 22Relationships with Children: Guest Jadah Sellner
47:35 23Thank You & Credits
11:28 24Toxic Relationships
10:24 25Friendships
28:58 26Social Media Relationships & Q & A
17:42 27Day 2 - Wrap-Up
04:37Lesson Info
Day 1 Pre-Show
Hello, Internet and welcome to Creativelive. We are here in our beautiful studios in San Francisco, and we are about to embark upon a two day journey with Tamara Lackey. We are going to be talking about relationships now. This is a big topic for really anybody and everybody out there in the world. We are all in relationships, whatever type, whether that's business personal, whether that is a marriage or partnership. Kids, parents were all in relationships, and this is gonna be a very exciting classes. So my name is Ken Klosterman. I'm going to be your host today, along with Selena Larson and everybody, please welcome Selena. This is our very first time hosting on creative. I've and we're so excited to have you got yourself for everybody out there. Yeah, high. So I'm Selena. I am a writer by trade based here in San Francisco. And, like, kind of said, this is my first time and I'm just very excited to be part of the creative life family. Awesome. Well, this is gonna be a great start. Of ...
course. Tamer Lackey is a veteran instructor educator here on creativelive. And this is I get a little bit of a different course than we've done here normally on Creativelive. So we're excited. Teoh bring you expanded topics and subject matters. So this is a pre show we're going to do about eight minutes of pre show, taking an opportunity to make sure that everything works here audio and are sound our visuals. So let us know in the chat rooms. If you can see us and hear us, there's a little chat with live participants. Green button there, beneath the live feed that you're watching right now, pop in there and again in the live town in the lounge tab. Lets know where you're from and why you are tuning in. Maybe what your biggest relationship challenges or what you're excited toe learn. We would love to hear from you and give you shout outs. Great! And in addition to all of you out there joining us online, we also have eight people here in our studio audience that we like to get to know. So we'll go ahead and start with Neil and let's hear your name where you're from, where we can find you online and what you're excited about learning today. So take it away Neil. Thanks. Uh, I'm Neil. David. Live here in San Francisco Was here for term Ra's Children Posing Guide workshop. So it's excited to kind of shift gears and go into the relationships. One kind of excited to see, not sure what to expect. But I'm sure we're gonna all be there tissue sitting around, so I'm not sure. Um, uh, family and Children, among other things. Photographer on dime online at Neil, david dot com and I a l. And I'm David like everything other social Harris. And I'm really excited to be here with my husband. Brian. You can find me online at Sarah Harris, um, Twitter Handle or Sarah. Here's photography dot com. And, uh, we just flew in from Virginia more really excited to be here with camera. I, Brian Harris, and Sarah said I'm married. Teoh, Lovely intelligence. Sarah Harris of Sarah Harris Photography. And I'm kind of new to all of this, but really excited to be here. And, you know, obviously from a photography standpoint, relationships are key. And so as I get more involved in the business, you know, kind of learning about how toe strengthen those relationships between Sarah and clients. but also on a more personal level, you know, just kind of our own relationships and kind of building on this. Well, we're really excited to have both of you here, and that's gonna be really powerful for a lot of people who are joining us online. And we thank you in advance for being willing. All of you really to interact and share, because this is gonna be very participatory. So hi, I'm Judy Zarella. Gina Onda. I am an amateur photographer looking to get into family and portrait business. I was here for timely lackeys, child posing, of course. And I was the only one who had was not about to conform conservation ship course, and that everybody was joking. I have a dog figured out hot about it. I realized that interacting with people my relationship with people, not just my family, your spouse or any friends, right? I really need to know a lot about that. And I thought, This is something that I need to do A course. I need to I would have seen it anyways. Hollings. I said no. This is after attending the live work show, the child posing course. I said No, I need to be here on like so I joined here on you can find me on Twitter as Jay I t you underscore 6791 and on Facebook as your thesaurus. Virgina. Awesome. And I think that's really cool because we were talking yesterday. You have been a very long time creativelive community. Very long time creative. Leiber what? Three years over three years. And I might know me as cheap. Oh, yeah, because I keep asking questions way love, But tell us about a little bit. What's been different with being here in the live experience? Because I know that we have lots of opportunities for people to come. Join us here live. Tell us what's been different for you. I I When I started watching my first reader light, I did not even own a DSLR. I was very new to photography. It it was just a hobby. I mean, not even a passionate hobby. It was like I don't know, That's how I waas and I was watching. The first reader like that was in 2010. John Green goes one of my favorite yes, from my parents to, and somebody on my Facebook's Send a Mess says that I have been watching for two weeks. It's amazing, guys, June. So which you and then and I was blown away by the flights. I was like, Whoa, this is good and watch the following the following It was a 10 week course, and by the end of one week I was so amazed by the technical stuff. The way he explained everything, I was like, I need to get out of years largely to try this. And I actually sent out an email to create a life. I don't remember the tech person I contacted, but I just found a random email somewhere, and I contacted the person as it could you please. As John, which camera should by any actually gay. He came. I got a reply for that and send me a list stuff like within my budget. Which camera should buy. And that's how I started. I would look at this video's try out something, and then look at the next video and try something else. And that is how I learned it step by step since 2010. Well, we're happy to have you so happy to have you in person. All right, let's keep going. We just got a couple of minutes. My name is Rebecca Cosa from the Atlanta Georgia area are been in Cosa on Twitter and Facebook, and I'm actually working on starting a birth photography business, which is something I'm really excited about. And, um, first of all, I'm myself and then I work. I'm married to an incredible man named Jason. And we've been together over 11 years, I think. And I have three unbelievable, unbelievably awesome Children. And I'm just I'm really fortunate to be here and thankful for the opportunity to have a couple of days toe step out of my crazy life and work on my relationship with myself and all these amazing people in my life because we all deserve more from me. I deserve more for me. I love that. That's a good one. I deserve more from me. I like it. Thank you, Taymor, for doing this. Tweet it. Tweet it to morning. I'm Carly Foreign Baker from Fort McMurray, Alberta. You can find me a photo Tales by Karma Lee at Karma's photo tails on Twitter. Um, I think I think relationships are a core part of our lives. I know I personally consider myself with Children's and relationships photographers, so it's a big part of what I dio, um, so I'm just really excited to be here. But at the same time, I'd like to give a shout out to some of the most important relationships in my life. My three kids. That is a okay, let's or let's start with tears way We're thrilled to have you how it is going around, Um, and thank you. And what's really cool is that you're doing this not just for yourself, but for your Children. And so we are really happy toe, have you? Awesome. All right, Next I am just is on and by day and visual effects artists by night. I'm a photographer, and, um, you can find me at gus Dizon dot com and, um, from Pacifica here in San Francisco Bay Area. And I'm a father of 1.5, a 10 month old, and went on the way gradually, November. And, um, this relationship course, um, is totally relevant to everything. I mean, when you have Children, new Children, you're have to relearn like marriage and a zealous just you know, with the photography side and working with other people in Children. And so I'm just looking forward. I'm open to see what tomorrow has to offer, and I'm excited. Great side. Have you? I rather frank eyes. Easy. H Last name is Rosa our a z a. And you could find me everywhere online with that instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Google, close everything. I am excited to be here because, um, I'm still kind of in the newlywed stage where we've been married for about a year and 1/2. I'm in a new city. So I'm trying to balance having maintaining relationships with friends that are a little long distance and meeting new friends here, managing business relationships, and we're thinking about, you know, down the line, starting a family. So it's kind of how toe juggle that balance. That and first and foremost, I think, like everybody else said, um, finding time for myself in the middle of all that. Phil, I'm excited about that. Well, we're excited that you gave yourself time to be here. I know. I've been encouraging you on Facebook and such so very glad that you took that advice and that you're here. So everybody again, welcome to all of you out there. I know that everybody resonate with somebody in this room, and so we're excited to hear from you throughout the day as well, but we're ready to get started. And so let's do this. I'm just going to take you through a quick introduction about how to watch today's class, how to ask questions and chat and how to purchase the course videos. There's one place to watch creativelive, and that is creativelive dot com slash live. You can take us on the go on your IPad IPhone or android friendly device. So wherever you are this weekend, you can take Tamer Lackey with you anywhere on the Creativelive website. Maybe you're gonna be signing up for some other courses today. You can always get back and see what's playing on creative life by hovering over that watch button, and it will let you select what you want. Toe watch. Of course, Right now you're on the live page and you're watching the relationships course. Take a look at that page and you can see beneath the video that you're watching is how you can purchase this course. The course is $99. However, during the live event, you can get that live event discount price of $79. So again, the easiest way to add that to your creativelive library is right there with the buy button on the live page. Next, we would like to invite you again to join us in this global conversation. Everybody has relationships as we've been talking about and just a side note. What that means is that everybody that you know in the world also has relationships, and probably most everybody needs some help on them. I don't think I know anybody that says that they have perfect relationships with everybody in their life. So I just want to take a moment to invite you to Social media out that this is happening now live for free because we want to get the more people the merrier as it goes here, Creativelive everybody is welcome. If you know one person in your life that you think could benefit from this class, send him an email with the link, send them post a tweet, post a of Facebook post and invite him to be here today. So let's take a Look at that chat room where we invite you to join this conversation again. There three tabs across the top. The 1st 1 is the live tab. And this is where we invite you to have your on topic conversations. So again, so many resource is out there with all of you who indeed are in relationship to each other with each other in our creativelive community is full of relationships. They're everywhere. Relationships. They're everywhere. So share your knowledge. Share your ideas. When Tamara is gonna be asking for your ideas, give him to us here in live tab. If you have questions for Tamara, that is where you're going to ask them in that creative accused have. So this is just a one way spot. We've got a team of folks, Ari and Scott and Steven who are back in Seattle behind the scenes, passing those questions along to Selena and I. So let us know where you're from when you when you drop in those questions so that we can give you that global shout out. And finally we have the creative lounge. Good morning, loungers. This is the community room. This is for you to again continue to grow those relationships. How many times are we going to say the word relationship over the next of the to, Of course of the next two days. Yet in the lounge it could be a drinking game. Tamara is motioning to me off the side of the stage here. So, everybody, the lounge really is just a place to get to know each other, have fun and have your off topic Harmer stations. So in addition to those chat rooms, you can also be part of the conversation on social media. So we're using the hashtag Tamara Live and on Facebook. Of course, it's facebook dot com slash creativelive and again, go there right now. Invite somebody in your life who is very special to you to come join this course online. Live free. All right, so this course is relationships. I'll say it again. The heart of life and business. So again, when you first heard this topic, you might have thought, Oh, this is just about romantic relationships. Well, it is not. This is about interacting with everybody in your life and figuring out how to do get the best out of that. And who better than Tamerlan Key to come and teach this class as part of her. All in one life, Siri's we are is again Tamara. Amazing! We're so glad to have you. So we try to reach as many people around the world for free during our live events. But again, you can choose to purchase this course to re watch over and over. And perhaps you won't be able to watch the whole thing this weekend. You can go ahead and add that to your creativelive library. It's $99 course, but you can add it to your library for $79 when you purchase it during the live event. So talk about an investment in yourself. This is going to be an amazing one. Eso In addition to that, we are going to be Let's take a look at the live course page. I'm sorry. Not the life course page the course page for this workshop. This is where you gonna find all of the content that is for this course. First of all, we invite you to enroll for the course that is free to enroll. You get reminder email, and in addition to that, here is another space where you can purchase the course, scroll down the page and this is where you can find the bonus materials for this course will be talking about these over the course of the next two days. But this is where you go to download the bonus materials. Scroll down the page, and this is where all the content lives. So the videos that we break up into bite sized chunks so that you can go back and find what it is that you're looking for, you can download the files. There's the high res version as well as the low rez version. Those are great for your mobile devices, or when you purchase any time access, you can just stream directly from the Web site itself. We like to give away prizes here and tomorrow always brings great, wonderful prizes. So we are doing a Facebook giveaway as well as a Twitter. Give away all combined the two different ways to enter your and go to our Facebook page. There's a green contest icon there, and you're going to listen for your favorite tomorrow. Lackey quotes or tips were looking for things that are educational, inspirational, are fun When you click on that green icon, it'll give you a space to enter in your quote. Also, let us know where you're joining us from then there so that we can give that a shout out. And then on Twitter, you're going to make sure that you follow Tamara Lackey. Her Twitter handle is at tomorrow Lackey, and you're going to include the short URL or the full euro for the course. And so that is you can always find directly on the course page. You can copy and paste that you can always find out and get reminders about how to enter these contests. Creativelive dot com slash blawg is we're gonna find out all those details as well as what you can win. So again, welcome everybody to Creativelive. You are here for our to day relationships course with Tamra Lackey. Tamer, of course, is a longtime educator here on Creativelive. She is not only a professional photographer, an educator, a speaker, but has just launched a website that I would love to have you talk about all in one life dot com and this truly it's a beautiful thing that this is a great opportunity for you to join us and educate us on relationships
Class Materials
Ratings and Reviews
Trudi Butler LSWPP
Brilliant insightful course. Extremely helpful advice and practical solutions. I find Tamara a very warm, knowledgeable, fun and understanding instructor and almost everything she said rang true with me and probably everyone would find the same. I hesitate to say it's been a life-changing course for fear it sounds cheesy but it's definitely had a profound effect! Thank you so much Tamara for your honestly!
a Creativelive Student
I have read a review that i highly disagree with. I got more out of this course than I have from many overpriced therapy sessions, with so called qualified practitioners. She is honest about her qualifications and I feel lucky that she did not let her lack of formal training stop her from sharing her experiences and strategies she has put in place in her own life. I also thank her for sharing some private stories many people would not have felt comfortable to do so. My husband and I are both very grateful and much happier. THANK YOU!
a Creativelive Student
Insightful class. I recommend watching the course more than once.