The Wheel of Misfortune: Resentment
Lesson 9 from: Make More Money and Discover Your WorthSue Bryce, Tiffany Angeles
The Wheel of Misfortune: Resentment
Lesson 9 from: Make More Money and Discover Your WorthSue Bryce, Tiffany Angeles
Lesson Info
9. The Wheel of Misfortune: Resentment
Lessons
Class Introduction
04:13 2Blocking, Leaking, and Pushing Money Away
03:50 3The Wheel of Misfortune: Avoidance
09:24 4The Wheel of Misfortune: Guilt & Shame
10:40 5The Wheel of Misfortune: Not Receiving
08:57 6The Wheel of Misfortune: Over Giving
05:40 7The Wheel of Misfortune: No Boundaries
06:30 8The Wheel of Misfortune: Overspending
07:21The Wheel of Misfortune: Resentment
03:58 10The Wheel of Misfortune: Tightfisted
16:24 11Students Share Their Place on the Wheel
06:02 12Money Management LOVE
10:02 13How to Price Yourself
29:18 14Be Honest Within Your Business, Yourself
18:24 15Reevaluate Your Money Mindset
11:24 16How Do I Change Your Value?
13:22 17Overcome Avoidance
10:08 18Overcome Guilt and Shame
07:55 19Open Yourself to Receiving
05:23 20Overcome Over Giving
05:34 21Overcome Your Lack of Boundaries
06:52 22Overcome Overspending
06:49 23Overcome Resentment
07:08 24Overcome Tightfistedness
13:37 25Understand the Pain Path
14:20 26Rewrite Your Story
14:03 27Unlock The Secrets to Get What You Really Want
26:22 28What Do You Want?
26:15Lesson Info
The Wheel of Misfortune: Resentment
Resentment. Resentment is really just this negative energy that we put around us, trying to blame the other person for what's happening to us. And this could happen in a business with your clients, even at a micro-level, because you're putting out a price that is too low to really sustain you, and you're resentful about that. And that resentment comes through to that client. And this is how you're pushing money away from you, because, whether you think it or not, they can feel that energy coming from you, because you're not really paying what I think I'm worth. I'm just giving this to you, but it's really cheap. When we're resentful of what we have, we repel the thing that we want. Because we're so much negative energy wrapped up in being resentful, that instead of focusing on the thing that we want and the money that we want to make and creating it, our energy gets stuck in being resentful. You were treated unfairly. A lot of people are treated unfairly. But resentment is the process ...
of blaming them and not taking our part of responsibility, which is what we'll talk about this afternoon. So we hold onto grudges, and we think people are always taking from us, and, you know, I'm putting myself out there but people just aren't paying me enough. And that resentment further repels clients from you. I'm resentful in my job because they made changes on me, and I don't like it. Do you think you're gonna get promoted? Someone else is in charge of your money. Resentment because someone else holds the purse strings. I've given control of my money to someone else and now I'm resentful that I can't do what I want with my money, because I have to get it approved through them. And money means loss. A lot of times, we do have this connection between money and love, so if I make more money, I'm gonna lose love. If I make money, I'm gonna lose my friends. If I make money, my family's not gonna want to be around me. So we have this connection between money and loss, and money, if I make more money, I'm just gonna get more taxes. So why would I want to make more money? It's just more taxes, more bills. Money means pain and secrets. So sometimes this is deep-seated in a family, where you were raised in an environment that money literally means secrets. One parent bought something and you were in the middle and told not to tell the other parent. Everything around money to you is a lie, right? Money means fighting, it means upsetness. Everything I know around money is negative, so I don't want money. I want money but I don't want money. I can't keep it near me, because I'm really resentful of what the connotation of money has for me.
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Ratings and Reviews
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OMG!!! You two are amazing!!! I am so grateful for all of your insight, and preparation that you have shared with us, wow!!! Lucky me, to have come across such an informative talk. You brought a human element to what it's like to be an artist. Sharing your ups and downs but always forging forward to be the best that you can be, because that's what your heart longs for, and what you were put on this plant to accomplish and share with the world. I've been a professional photographer for 30 years, and feel so fortunate for the life I've been given. No matter how long you've been doing photography, or been successful, these two wonderful women help to analyze the big picture, which is so insightful. Through their observations, hard work, determination and belief they have forged forward and are sharing their knowledge with us. I'm a spender and this came at the perfect time, as I'm taking time to observe my patterns. Thank you so much for this stellar talk!
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